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One of my near-neighbors in the hutong of central Beijing holds down this post for a major energy company. But the drinking phase of the evening isn't just about pure endurance. The evaluation continues in the confines of the brothel.
Zheng Tiantian, an anthropologist who spent several years working as a KTV hostess as part of her Ph. It was a flat lie because I knew that Shi's mistresses… had gleaned a great deal of money from them. And, of course, the evening's costs have to be covered. If dealing with officials, footing the bill for a night of sex is a relatively small sum compared to the volume of bribes that the business side is likely to fork out over the course of the relationship, and even smaller compared to the rewards the bribes can reap.
If dealing with other businessmen, however, it's a chance for one-upmanship and evaluation of "generosity," like paying at a restaurant. It also gives a chance to see who's important, and who isn't, in the other side's hierarchy; I once came downstairs in the early morning to find my boss beating one of his underlings around the head while holding the bill, verbally abusing him for having the effrontery to include himself and another of his low-ranking buddies in the night's expensive entertainment.
As Zheng details in her book, getting overly sentimental or romantic toward women is seen as a sign of weakness and lack of masculinity. If a businessman is unfortunate enough to love his wife or girlfriend, using it as an excuse to avoid sex is a massive faux pas. I've seen some instead plead tiredness or drunkenness, a more acceptable excuse, or use everyone's 2 am exhaustion as a chance to slip away. Yet it's not unknown, according to sex workers, for men who have retired with the girls for the night to pay for "special services" the next morning that they never received, instead spending the night watching television or sleeping chastely.